Why I Do Not Regret Marrying Young
It will be so hard for me to fail to recall sitting across from my department’s dean just a week away from my graduation. I had actually celebrated my 21st birthday a week before this day. This was actually my 3rd year in college yet I had racked up adequate credits that would see me graduate. I was actually inside her office where she was marveling at my potential to cram one year’s worth of coursework in a limited period of time. She was of the view that I had rushed through in pursuit of starting my master’s program quite early. You will however learn that she had no slight idea that I had been engaged ever since November and that I was actually planning for my wedding. It is at this point that I chose to tell her that I was getting married before she handed me my folder.
It is not hard to understand why she could not say anything. This is because people assume that your twenties need to be for your pals. This is now the time that you will have to learn more about yourself and traveling. It will often be the best time to discover more of who you truly are. I however wanted to see to all these with my partner. It was in high school that I met my hubby who was then a sophomore. We went on to chat online for some time before he eventually requested me out for dinner. We soon become a thing and this was no time to look back. WE actually had to go through the face of immaturity as well as insecurity. You will realize that jealousy will only bring about contempt. WE actually have never broken up.
We got married when he was twenty two and I was twenty one. It is now close to a decade that has been full of memories. I have guided him in lots of things such as preparing for marathons as well as discovering his innate capacity to prepare great meals. We have actually switched careers over six times now. Together we have been blessed with a pair of babies that we cherish so much. It is barely a fortnight before we can finally celebrate ten years of this wedded bliss as well as one and a half decades of being together.
There is no point that I have ever regretted getting married this early. We actually knew that we were purposed for one another right from the onset. There was no point of getting whatever out of my system. He also found it fit not to fall vulnerable to sowing wild oats. We took things slowly. This was the right decision for all of us.